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GOT BLOG! Gidge Uriza from It’s Only Fashion

I am participating in the Got Blog! Bloggers Challenge, you can find more information on this at https://sasyscarborough.com/2024/08/09/got-blog-bloggers-challenge/

And awaaaaaay we gooooo….

When did you start your Second Life Blog?

Our blog was started by my SL Bestie Cajsa Lilliehook on January 1 2008, I didn’t start blogging until May – but Cajsa took all of my photos for along time because I just didn’t understand it truthfully.

Why did you start Blogging in Second Life?

I started because I was invited by Cajsa to join her on It’s Only Fashion. I figured why not, we did everything else together in SL!

Do you feel the Blogging community in Second Life has changed since you started Blogging, and if so, in what ways?

Yes, in good and bad ways. Maybe it’s more ME that changed. There used to be a lot of cliques – that were very “You’re with us or you’re against us” and honestly I didn’t really even know who the fuck they were. Eventually we did evolve into a more cohesive community but really I think a lot of us just grew up. The community goes through cycles, new bloggers start up, sometimes they’re inventive and amazing, sometimes they think they invented the wheel. We were here when the wheel was a box. The trick for us oldbies (yeah that’s what we call ourselves) is for us not to get arrogant about it. We’ve got to realize that yes, new bloggers do have new things to show us and can help us sharpen the saw for ourselves, to quote old Zig Ziglar.

Do you think that Bloggers have a positive impact on Second Life culture and community, and if so, do you have any stories about that?

I do, I think we are in a lot of ways a big old amoeba of press and news. None of us are the same, well most of us aren’t. Some blog about issues and problems on the grid, some are passionate about the arts, some share info/stories about the varied communities we are part of, some like me have an avatar who has her own little life and she shares it – it’s a story that is random and mostly involves eating. 

From the standpoint of when have we made amazing impacts? I think Hair Fair and the positive impacts we’ve made for Wigs for Kids is a great example of that. There have been other fundraisers, giving to charitable organizations that are truly inspiring. Once upon a time a dear friend of many people, Squinternet Larnia, was terminally ill – and we held an event for her at the end of her life, not after she was gone – so that she could see and feel the love the community had for her. She was so touched I found it to be one of the most moving events I’ve ever been a part of. 

Our culture is one of caring for one another and I love that.

Are you approachable as a Blogger by content creators that may have interest in you as a Blogger for their Brand/Store?

Of course. I am always honored if someone thinks of me.
Do you have any tips or tricks that help you with the Blogging process that you would like to share?

There is a balance to strike between doing what you love and making it work. It’s not work if it doesn’t pay your bills. If you enjoy doing it, then great, do it and have fun. But don’t make yourself crazy doing it. I used to blog every day sometimes more than once a day. I felt this massive obligation to share share share….don’t do that. Blog for YOU first, and you’ll always find the right balance.

Have you yourself ever benefited from another Blogger’s post, such as learning a new skill for Blogging, or Second Life functions that you may not have known about?
I learn a ton of things from Sasy https://sasyscarborough.com/ and Gogo juicybomb.com . I’m not a tutorial girl, I’m lazy and want to point and click and make things work, so when it gets complicated those ladies usually have already written how to do it or help me out behind the scenes.

What kind of Blogs appeal to you as a reader, and what would you like to see more of in the Second Life Blogging world?

I don’t read a ton, but I like fun, pretty pics, and I like blogs with personality. I want to know about you and what you love not just stark editorial review.

Do you Blog content that you yourself would wear/use always, or do you blog content that is expected of you to blog due to commitments to stores/events?

I am not currently part of any events, so I’m free of that. I used to blog for most of the major events back in the day, and I loved it. There are some amazing events out there. But being free to blog what I want how I want is really where I am now.

Do you feel that imposed time limits, and a set amount of content featured changes the way you blog content, and does it feel less authentically you?

Oh god yes. Requiring three items per post, three posts etc – there I am trying to figure out how to get a can of spam, a chair and high heels to be in a post about my avatar and her life. When in reality, I’d probably have a lot more items if I was just organically making up a little story for her – but the pressure is counter to letting Gidge live her SLife. Gidge needs to share her real SLife – if it can be called that.

Do you use Social Media, and/or other platforms outside of your Blog/Website to promote the content you have shared?
Just plurk – plurk.com/gidge

Do you pay for any aspect of your blogging other than the clothing or items in your images, such as Website Hosting, Photoshop etc?

I pay for premium Flickr. Our friend currently hosts our blog for free – we should probably pay her.

Do you think that Stores/Content Creators should have a Website/Blog for their Brand?
I’m not sure, maybe? I can see the value in it, if it had all their items shown maybe? People used to have them. I had one for my pose store. I can’t confirm if it matters really.

Do you have any suggestions for Content Creators/Stores to consider, when it comes to their Bloggers, and Bloggers that they may want to have Blog for them?

I think you need to choose bloggers who are going to showcase your brand the way you want it represented. This might sound like ‘Duh Gidge we know” but really, do you want to be silly or serious? I’ll give you silly, but never editorial unless I’m uninspired. There are people who do amazing editorial work – and that might be the showcase for your work.  I’m a prude, no cum slobbering lollipops for me. Is that something you want included in your brand representation on blogs? I mean – if so, yah grab that person! If not – keep looking.

Do you have any advice that you can give other Bloggers that may be new to the experience, or even advice/wisdom that you want to share with the Blogging community as a whole, new or old?

Have fun. Relax. Be kind to one another. Cheer one another on. There is room for all of us.

Do you have suggestions for which Blogging Platform to use, and why you chose it over others?
WordPress. Always wordpress.

What do you enjoy and are most passionate about when it comes to Blogging?

Everything. 

I would like to challenge my blog partners Cajsa and Rose to participate, Cajsa has been on hiatus but maybe she’ll come around and the AMAZING Sydd Sinister

Gidge has GOT BLOG! In:
Mole: Tutti Belli – ‘Lisa’ Moles 01 (Lelutka Evolution X)
Freckles: LeLUTKA.EvoX.Freckles.013
Maitreya LaraX Physics
Dress: (RED):::FurtaCor:::Xyca Dress::maitreya
Headband: * Sparkle Skye Emily Pearl Headband Dbl
Head: / HEAD / lel EvoX NOEL 3.1
Necklace: Cae :: Love Heart :: Necklace
Rings: e.marie // Cecilie Rings – Golds { Maitreya F }
Hair: Exile:: Claudia
Shoes: friday – Mary Janes (Ink) – Maitreya
Treats: Hangry – Ice Cream Sandwich Prep Board {hold}
Hangry – Waffle Ice Cream Sandwich {hold}
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – LaraX V1.1
Skin: 7 Deadly s[K]ins – BOM – BABY freckled cotton candy BROWLESS
Kitchen: Dutchie
Kitty Cat: Snake Plisskin – from Kittycats

Christmas Fries

I’ve been missing from the grid for several weeks due to an internet issue that was blocking me from accessing. We got an upgrade and suddenly I couldn’t connect. Annoying, let me tell you.

But eventually I landed back in my house and found Christmas in full swing which means it’s time to decorate and get SUPER happy. I love Halloween but right behind that is the wintery joy that Christmas brings, even to my island paradise.

I picked up this hilarious Elf Fries from Junk Food. It’s the time of year for the silliest of treats and you know I’m here for it.

What’s your methodology for Shop & Hop? Do you go to it? I have a strict rule of always walking in the same direction with either my left or right shoulder facing the shops. I just keep going until I finally get back to wherever I started – if I can remember where that is, of course.

I messed up the other day and when I logged in I chose to log in at home, which meant I had no idea where I’d left off. Oooops. It’s so overwhelming and huge. I’m also not a fan of booths with too much brown. Bad textures are bleh but omg when everything is brown I’m just so done. I know that’s probably silly, but we all have our thing, don’t we?

Now I post this pic with lots of brown because my likes are duplicitous and without reason.

But besides that, I’m back! YAY!

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Gidge is Eating Elf Fries In:
Eyebrows: Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – 16 Eyebrows (soft arch) pink
Head:lel EvoX RAVEN 3.1
Top: Blueberry – Blessed – FULL Tops – Maitreya
Skirt: Blueberry – Blessed – Pleated Skirts – Maitreya
Rings:e.marie // Cecilie Rings – Golds { Maitreya F }
Hair: Exile:: Erya
Boots: friday – Petra Boots (Ink) – Maitreya
Socks: friday – Petra Sock Cuffs (Maitreya)
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
Skin: [7DS] – BODY 2020 TAISIYA bom skin PINEAPPLE browless

A Dubious Engagement

I met some lovely people who invited me over for a little casual Pre-Halloween Soiree and so I thought I’d stop and pick up some treats on my way. It’s important to be a good guest, don’t you think?

There were a few folks with no skin, and this one fellow who just keeps floating about in an ominous way wearing a very poor quality hooded cape. Is that a sculpty? It looks like it.

I just don’t now if these are my people, truly. I may just feign a headache and head home.

I’ll take my drinks home. This just doesn’t seem like the kind of crowd to enjoy a 3000 calorie coffee, now does it?

What’s on your agenda this weekend? May I recommend these coffee drinks? They are delicious!

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Gidge is Bringing Treats In:
Tights:[Stellar] Garter Tights in black
Brows: [Glam Affair] Adele – Brows Black 100%
Lips: [Glam Affair] Adele – Lips Toner 3
Skin: [Glam Affair] Adele
Eye Makeup: [Glam Affair] Adele – Eyes Makeup 2
Ring: (Yummy) Diamond Solitaire Ring – Gold – Maitreya
Head: / HEAD / lel EvoX KAYA 3.1
Earrings: Bliensen + MaiTai – Mine! – Earring – Night
Necklace: Cae :: Trinket :: Necklace (Long)
Hair: Exile::June 1
Boots and Socks: friday – Charlie Boots
Skirt: Friday – Tatum Skirt (Abyss) – Maitreya
Top: friday – Tatum Sweatshirt (Abyss) – Maitreya
Coffee: Junk Food – Pumpkin Candy Latte
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3

Weekend Sales – August 12-14

A terrifying moment and sudden scare.
Calling for help will do no good
They’re approaching
There’s no time left…run!

8-14-22 Weekend Sales

Spooky Season is fast approaching! I’ve been doing many spooky looking photos lately but I wanted to do one with a brighter style. Nothing’s wrong with an old classic, young woman scared for her life.

7DAYS 77
Fewness Starry Septum Piercing

FIFTY LINDEN FRIDAYS
-Pixicat Nova Set
Heaux Joy Skin for EVOX in Icy
friday Parker Sandals in Ink

THE SATURDAY SALE
Doe Hair Gabriella
Duckie Enchanted Glasses in Silver
e.marie Antonia Earrings in Silvers
Kibitz Dangling Spider Necklace in Silver

GROPU GIFT

Synergy July Group Gift

THE SALES ROOM
LM
{Demicorn} Kitty Lips RAINBOW

OTHER ITEMS WORN

Lelutka Lilly Mesh Head
Maitreya Lara Mesh Body w/ Petite Add On
Banana Banshee Watashi Applier EVOX
AvInk Footless Floral Print Tights Omega Applier
VELOUR The “Ipanema Body” for Maitreya (ICY)

Poses by Le Plume THE SATURDAY SALE

Photo Location: Yomi Mainstore

Chaotic Grocery Trip

Ever have one of those days where even though you’re getting everything right it just seems like it’s all too much? That was me out grocery shopping today. I mean, of course I got the giant, ridiculous carrots I was looking for but still…what a crazy day.

How is your weekend going?

Gidge is Ready for the Week In:
Eyeshadow: Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – Soft Winter Glitter Eyeshadow copper
Brows: Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – 16 Eyebrows (thin) pink 75%
Rings: (Yummy) Chaotic Energy Ring Collection [Lara]
Bag: .Unicorn. Vegetable Bag Holdable’ [1]
Head: / HEAD / lel EvoX KAYA 3.1
Shirt: =Zenith=Jeans long shirt with scarf(Light Blue) -Maitreya
Hair: Exile:: Shiloh
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
Skin: [7DS] – BODY 2020 MARLIE bom skin COTTON CANDY browless
Boots: Fri.day
Bike: Junk Food

Making Christmas

Hello lovelies. If you’ve been locked in a cave or trapped under something heavy you may have missed the news that Lelutka is offering a new head for group members, for free. You can pick up a male and female head just for the having, and I do have to admit, I might like this one the best of any I’ve gotten in 2020. It wasn’t hard to get her face in shape for a Gidgey type look either.

How are you decorating for Christmas? Do you buy gifts for your SL friends? I popped over to the ARCADE and pulled levers for gifts for friends which was fun. A cream doggie for Gogo (already gave it – no worries). A Black and Tan doggo for Dancien, something fun and RARE for Kitty. I also grabbed a few delightful hampers for some friends—it was a successful shopping trip, and I couldn’t wait so I already gave some away. I know I’m silly, but still – I love Christmas.

I’m in the middle of decorating my home and I’m using mostly old decor items this year because they are traditional to me and my SLife. Do you have traditions in SL? I like having items I do every year. It makes my SLife have more of a narrative which makes me happy.

We are winding up for the holidays – I bet there have been “Baby it’s Cold Outside” posts already.

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Gidge is in the Holiday Spirit In:
Lipstick: alaskametro<3 “Stonefruit” lipstick 02b Fit B
Eyeshadow: Izzie’s – LeLutka – Daphne Eyeshadow 05 teal
Skin: Izzie’s – LeLutka Daphne Skin (Face) fair BLB
Ring: (Yummy) Diamond Solitaire Ring – Gold – Maitreya
Rings: (Yummy) Unicorn Rings – Maitryea
Drink: e.marie // Crazy for Cocoa Gacha – Black Mug { add me } THE ARCADE
Shoes: friday – Polley Janes 2 (Ink) – Maitreya
Socks: friday – Polley Knee Socks (Maitreya)
Head: LeLUTKA.Head.Lilly.2.5
Head: Magika – Thoughtful
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – V5.3
Dress: UNA. RosyJersey (Lara) Pink
Chair: BAZAR
Tree: Moss & Mink

With Puppy In Tow

With my puppy, I hit the mean streets of SL shopping, once again clad in designer kindness from the Gacha Garden. How cute is this dress for a free gift? It was perfect for my grid roaming ways today, and this purse that was also free just takes the cake. If you also have a dog that you always bring with you, you may consider giving him a turmeric dog supplement and other food supplements for dogs to boost his health and immunity to protect him from viruses and allergens.

There are some people who complain about free gifts. I don’t complain about free gifts. What I complain about is GARBAGE people give out. I don’t expect everyone to give out something this nice, honestly. This is a sort of WOW COLOR ME IMPRESSED AND SURPRISED I WILL REMEMBER YOUR STORE AND SHOP THERE SORT OF GIFT.  I also think it’s ok not to give a gift. But, if you give out a gift and it’s some prim crap, I also won’t forget that. If you sell shoes and you give a flower – I’ll say thank you. If you sell lipsticks and you give out some sculpt BIAB crap from 2004….

Those seconds unboxing your crap gift I will not forget my friend, nay I shall not. Continue reading

You Like My Loving Machine

It’s another day of exploring at Backdrop City for me. I have found no less than five new creators I need to support with my $$ and I’ll be going shopping soon. If you’re like me, you like to own a lot of backdrops to set up fun scenes for blogging the creations of our world. Continue reading

Tick, Tock. Arcade O’Clock.

Tick, Tock, It's Soon Arcade O'Clock
The Arcade opens in just over three hours. December if my favorite month for The Arcade. The holidays seems to inspire such whimsy and grace. Also, since everything is No Copy for trading, it’s a great place to buy gifts. My outfit comes from Collabor88 items (except the fun candycane tights that were a Christmas gift from Alaska Metro last year. Sorry, I am an evil blogger, but not totally evil, they are on marketplace.
Tick, Tock, It's Soon Arcade O'Clock
Some beautiful Christmas decorations are part of Trompe Loeil’s fabulous Advent Set at The Arcde. Every year, Trompe Loeil’s Advent Calendar is one of the decor highlights of the season.
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