So, I was slapping together my morning blog post today and I said, self, something is wrong – THIS IS DEMO HAIR! My friend Alice had sent me some hairs cuz we’re friends and I’m a blogger and she makes hair and it’s a symbiotic relationship and anyway don’t even bother her about free hair I can’t get you hair but anyway after I realized I had on a demo, I went to Plurk.
Category Archives: Second Life
I know at least five
A friend and I had a discussion recently about how much or little Real Life to share in Second Life. She mentioned that back in the day, people warned her to keep all RL details private, and she carefully did. Over time SL became much different, with more than a little bleed between the toon and the reality. For both of us, our RL selves are far too frank to hide any of it, though.
We’ve both had experiences with people who roleplay their real lives through their avatars, which confused us mightily. Why lie about real life when it’s easy to say, “I’d like privacy, please!”
A different friend of mine switched genders to play her avatar, and mentioned to me once that it’s tremendously difficult for male avatars to get any peace at all about their real lives from inquisitive women. Yet another friend switched genders to play a female avatar, and said he has always been able to keep his RL private. I guess there are so many women in our virtual world that men are a rarity, and more curiosity is engendered by them?
I really wish that the avatars who want to keep their real lives secret could, so that instead of building up a trail of lies, they can simply enjoy the game.
At any rate, my avatar is lookin’ all role-playish in her new hair (fashionably Dead, at Hair Fair) and outfit (tee*fy from Collabor88) while visiting the Kingdom of Sand. Full disclosure: I don’t look a jot like Acha.
Hair: fashionably Dead Venus – Brunette 3
Makeup / eyes: Plastik Soul Ink reloaded in Juna tint, Vaele Coll Galaxia-Nala prim eyes
Skin: Plastik Aleria – Nomad skin
Tattoo: Plastik Haila Tattoo
Boots: Lassitude & Ennui Enbroidered mesh boots in brown
Camisole/shorts: Tee*fy bella and heather ruffled outfit, at Collabor88
Piercings: Ellabella Homeostasis 3
Armband: Bliensen + MaiTai industrial revolution
Horns: Tekeli-li Efreet, comes with the Tekeli-li hair
Dancing And Pool Parties

I logged in for Cajsa’s smooth jazz set on Sunday and she said “Put on your swimsuit.”
Handily, I had just picked a new one up at Fameshed from Valentina E. I thought it was kind of adorable because it included a cover up so it was perfect.
The Velvet had added an outdoor pool of eclectic elegance so it was a relaxing morning of floating and dancing while we shook off our Sunday lethargy.

When I didn’t feel like swimming, the cover-up still provided a pool party appropriate look without my bootie hanging out. Continue reading
Not Your Grandma’s Porcelain Doll
I love how the ultra modern shape of this jacket with its extreme shoulder and the bold, urban cut of the pants with zippered legs are merged with the ultimate in delicacy and tradition, the ancient art of blue and white porcelain. When a designer can take such dichotomous threads and weave them into a coherent design, that’s magic.
How to Enjoy Hair Fair
This will be the 6th Hair Fair I have attended and while that does not make me an expert, it does help me understand how to approach Hair Fair for maximum enjoyment.
- Enjoy the creativity of the store interiors. This is not just about picking up some new styles from favorite hair makers, but it’s about the experience. Many store owners have decorated and personalized their stores and created wonderful sets that are worth seeing. There’s everything from shark attacks to upscale salons to a display that is ready for MOMA. Don’t deprive yourself of all the ingenuity and creativity. It’s part of the show.
- Check out the new-to-you hair stylists. Hair Fair gives you an unequalled opportunity to find new favorites among the old.
- Check out old stores that may have new tricks. Some stores may have not made hair to your liking, but skills improve in a year. Folks develop new hair textures. Some are more inspired by mesh than they were by sculpts. There’s always a change from year to year.
- Buy some bandanas. The last day of Hair Fair is always the day we take off our hair and don bandanas in order to honor and stand in solidarity with the kids who are at the heart of this event. I made three bandanas this year with the collected plurkings of my cat providing the text for the texture.

- Remember why Hair Fair exists. This is not just about selling hair. It is about supporting the charity Wigs For Kids that helps restore the confidence of kids who have lost hair due to cancer treatment or other medical conditions.
- Join the Hair Fair Demo Group: Enter secondlife:///app/group/2e30d166-f3e5-e2de-ff72-b3da2d06ded2/about into your chat in-world and click and join so you can look at the demos in the peace and laglessness of your home. Also, since scripts are turned off, you can evaluate the huds at home, but not at the Fair.
- Follow the Road: The road through Hair Fair will take you by every store. You should give them all a once over, making your list of wants and then use the specific store slurls below for when you go back with your list of needs.
- Dress for Success. Drop your fancy scripted buds, they won’t work anyway. De-prim and de-stress with some low-impact clothing. You can pick up free outfits from DCNY at Hair Fair if you don’t have a low-lag event outfit stored in your Outfits folder already.
- Reduce lag by ignoring other avatars. Once upon a time I focused so much on reducing my avatar rendering cost that I would feel frustrated and roll my eyes at some primstrosity with a 18,000 ARC walking by, but if you don’t render those folks in the first place, the only people they will be lagging is themselves. What you can do is go to the Debug Settings in the Advanced Menu (ctl-alt-D) and type in RenderAvatarMaxVisible and reduce it to a reasonable number like 3 to 5 people and let the rest just be invisible or white eggs.
- Reduce lag with your graphics settings. Click the graphics tab in Preferences and hit the advanced button. Turn quality to low. Lower your draw distance to 64, enough to see what’s in front of you but not everything in the distance. Turn particles down to 0, you don’t need bling. Turn off atmospheric shaders and water reflections. Select Avatar Imposters so even the avatars you do see won’t be fully loaded.
- Keep the detail you need. Keep the mesh detail high so you can evaluate the hair. Continue reading
A horse and seven waters
I love Collabor88, but then, who doesn’t? This fashionably Dead sleeveless vest is there, and a lot of other stuff for my to-buy list.
Also, has everybody else been hit with intense migraines this week due to the shifting in atmospheric pressure? I swear to god that my brain is between a rock and a swampy place this week, and two other people that I know suffered terrible migraines as well! I read up on them, and it seems that migraines happen when a lot of triggers collect and are tipped over by one major force. The only way to really avoid them is to know your triggers and live very purely. Sadly, for me, this means giving up coffee… and staring at bright computer screens, sigh. W/E, universe, I think I’ll just suffer the migraine.
And lest you think I’ve forgotten about SL travel, fear not! A few pictures from the Realm of Sevenwaters is behind the cut, and outfit credits too!
Hair Fair 2013 – Kicks off Over Coffee with DECO

Blogger Preview of HAIR FAIR 2013 has begun so I didn’t even change my clothes, I just ran straight over and into the first shop I saw, which was DECO! Guess what? They have hair.
This is one of them.

Messy buns are on the RL fashion hot list for fall so snatch this one up. It’s an adorable mesh up-do style with dreamy whisps floating about. It’s a must have for you well dressed girls.
Have a beautiful Friday girls!
Hair Fair 2013 Preview – DECO
Gidge Is Wearing:
Lashes:cheLLe – Eyelashes 6
Top: (Milk Motion) 3d flowers lace top- S – nude
Skin: -Belleza- Betty Pale Vintage 2
Eyes: Nomine Stained Eyes – green medium
HAIR: DECO – Hiveish Hair – BARK
Think of a Title
I started this post this morning, but got distracted and decided to relax, read a book and cuddle with Oscar, my cat, instead. However, back to the blog! I love this dress from Milk Motion for Collabor88 July. It made with sheer floral tulle over a silk sheath with a serrated hem and sleeves. I love the color-on-color subtlety. I chose this nude version which is even more subtle than the many other color options you can choose from at Collabor88.
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Nomine Oculi

I was at a party recently and folks were talking about eyes that they liked. The usual names came up, and I mentioned I liked the new release from NOMINE.
The record scratched and everyone was like, NOMINE? Whut? Is it 2007?
Funny true story. Nomine is still around, the creator Munchflower doesn’t release a lot but when she does, she’s got the experience of a veteran to release a beautiful quality item that is definitely worth having. This time, it happens to be eyes. Continue reading
I Will Send This Fairy to My Friend Squinternet

I talked to my friend Squinternet today, for whom my other friend Cajsa is organizing a fundraiser. We talked about several things today, about how she felt, and how expensive it is to have a night nurse and so that’s why she doesn’t have one. It means she doesn’t have help in the night if there are problems.
We talked about hospitals and medicine, and being strong and losing hope, and finding it again. We talked about dying. Continue reading






