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GOT BLOG! Gidge Uriza from It’s Only Fashion

I am participating in the Got Blog! Bloggers Challenge, you can find more information on this at https://sasyscarborough.com/2024/08/09/got-blog-bloggers-challenge/

And awaaaaaay we gooooo….

When did you start your Second Life Blog?

Our blog was started by my SL Bestie Cajsa Lilliehook on January 1 2008, I didn’t start blogging until May – but Cajsa took all of my photos for along time because I just didn’t understand it truthfully.

Why did you start Blogging in Second Life?

I started because I was invited by Cajsa to join her on It’s Only Fashion. I figured why not, we did everything else together in SL!

Do you feel the Blogging community in Second Life has changed since you started Blogging, and if so, in what ways?

Yes, in good and bad ways. Maybe it’s more ME that changed. There used to be a lot of cliques – that were very “You’re with us or you’re against us” and honestly I didn’t really even know who the fuck they were. Eventually we did evolve into a more cohesive community but really I think a lot of us just grew up. The community goes through cycles, new bloggers start up, sometimes they’re inventive and amazing, sometimes they think they invented the wheel. We were here when the wheel was a box. The trick for us oldbies (yeah that’s what we call ourselves) is for us not to get arrogant about it. We’ve got to realize that yes, new bloggers do have new things to show us and can help us sharpen the saw for ourselves, to quote old Zig Ziglar.

Do you think that Bloggers have a positive impact on Second Life culture and community, and if so, do you have any stories about that?

I do, I think we are in a lot of ways a big old amoeba of press and news. None of us are the same, well most of us aren’t. Some blog about issues and problems on the grid, some are passionate about the arts, some share info/stories about the varied communities we are part of, some like me have an avatar who has her own little life and she shares it – it’s a story that is random and mostly involves eating. 

From the standpoint of when have we made amazing impacts? I think Hair Fair and the positive impacts we’ve made for Wigs for Kids is a great example of that. There have been other fundraisers, giving to charitable organizations that are truly inspiring. Once upon a time a dear friend of many people, Squinternet Larnia, was terminally ill – and we held an event for her at the end of her life, not after she was gone – so that she could see and feel the love the community had for her. She was so touched I found it to be one of the most moving events I’ve ever been a part of. 

Our culture is one of caring for one another and I love that.

Are you approachable as a Blogger by content creators that may have interest in you as a Blogger for their Brand/Store?

Of course. I am always honored if someone thinks of me.
Do you have any tips or tricks that help you with the Blogging process that you would like to share?

There is a balance to strike between doing what you love and making it work. It’s not work if it doesn’t pay your bills. If you enjoy doing it, then great, do it and have fun. But don’t make yourself crazy doing it. I used to blog every day sometimes more than once a day. I felt this massive obligation to share share share….don’t do that. Blog for YOU first, and you’ll always find the right balance.

Have you yourself ever benefited from another Blogger’s post, such as learning a new skill for Blogging, or Second Life functions that you may not have known about?
I learn a ton of things from Sasy https://sasyscarborough.com/ and Gogo juicybomb.com . I’m not a tutorial girl, I’m lazy and want to point and click and make things work, so when it gets complicated those ladies usually have already written how to do it or help me out behind the scenes.

What kind of Blogs appeal to you as a reader, and what would you like to see more of in the Second Life Blogging world?

I don’t read a ton, but I like fun, pretty pics, and I like blogs with personality. I want to know about you and what you love not just stark editorial review.

Do you Blog content that you yourself would wear/use always, or do you blog content that is expected of you to blog due to commitments to stores/events?

I am not currently part of any events, so I’m free of that. I used to blog for most of the major events back in the day, and I loved it. There are some amazing events out there. But being free to blog what I want how I want is really where I am now.

Do you feel that imposed time limits, and a set amount of content featured changes the way you blog content, and does it feel less authentically you?

Oh god yes. Requiring three items per post, three posts etc – there I am trying to figure out how to get a can of spam, a chair and high heels to be in a post about my avatar and her life. When in reality, I’d probably have a lot more items if I was just organically making up a little story for her – but the pressure is counter to letting Gidge live her SLife. Gidge needs to share her real SLife – if it can be called that.

Do you use Social Media, and/or other platforms outside of your Blog/Website to promote the content you have shared?
Just plurk – plurk.com/gidge

Do you pay for any aspect of your blogging other than the clothing or items in your images, such as Website Hosting, Photoshop etc?

I pay for premium Flickr. Our friend currently hosts our blog for free – we should probably pay her.

Do you think that Stores/Content Creators should have a Website/Blog for their Brand?
I’m not sure, maybe? I can see the value in it, if it had all their items shown maybe? People used to have them. I had one for my pose store. I can’t confirm if it matters really.

Do you have any suggestions for Content Creators/Stores to consider, when it comes to their Bloggers, and Bloggers that they may want to have Blog for them?

I think you need to choose bloggers who are going to showcase your brand the way you want it represented. This might sound like ‘Duh Gidge we know” but really, do you want to be silly or serious? I’ll give you silly, but never editorial unless I’m uninspired. There are people who do amazing editorial work – and that might be the showcase for your work.  I’m a prude, no cum slobbering lollipops for me. Is that something you want included in your brand representation on blogs? I mean – if so, yah grab that person! If not – keep looking.

Do you have any advice that you can give other Bloggers that may be new to the experience, or even advice/wisdom that you want to share with the Blogging community as a whole, new or old?

Have fun. Relax. Be kind to one another. Cheer one another on. There is room for all of us.

Do you have suggestions for which Blogging Platform to use, and why you chose it over others?
WordPress. Always wordpress.

What do you enjoy and are most passionate about when it comes to Blogging?

Everything. 

I would like to challenge my blog partners Cajsa and Rose to participate, Cajsa has been on hiatus but maybe she’ll come around and the AMAZING Sydd Sinister

Gidge has GOT BLOG! In:
Mole: Tutti Belli – ‘Lisa’ Moles 01 (Lelutka Evolution X)
Freckles: LeLUTKA.EvoX.Freckles.013
Maitreya LaraX Physics
Dress: (RED):::FurtaCor:::Xyca Dress::maitreya
Headband: * Sparkle Skye Emily Pearl Headband Dbl
Head: / HEAD / lel EvoX NOEL 3.1
Necklace: Cae :: Love Heart :: Necklace
Rings: e.marie // Cecilie Rings – Golds { Maitreya F }
Hair: Exile:: Claudia
Shoes: friday – Mary Janes (Ink) – Maitreya
Treats: Hangry – Ice Cream Sandwich Prep Board {hold}
Hangry – Waffle Ice Cream Sandwich {hold}
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – LaraX V1.1
Skin: 7 Deadly s[K]ins – BOM – BABY freckled cotton candy BROWLESS
Kitchen: Dutchie
Kitty Cat: Snake Plisskin – from Kittycats

Comfy Shoe Exploring

My friend’s sim Aurelias was recently reopened with an entirely new build and it’s a sweet little blogger paradise with all of it’s wonderful details and scenery.

It’s a lovely place just to BE as well. I could just spend time here being me and enjoying the scenery honestly. It’s so comforting to be in a space that feels so good to be in.

What I found really magical was the level of detail that was put into creating this build.

Look at these adorable little mice in the clock. This is the kind of just wonderful detail that makes this sim worth every little inch of discovery time.

They also built a rainy swampy area that is really spectacular. I’ve been a big fan of any kind of rain in SL forever but clearly it’s improved over time. It’s a great look.

Where did you explore lately?

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Gidge is Wandering in:
Brows: Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – 16 Eyebrows (soft arch) pink
Keggings: (fd) Knit Leggings 2.0 – Royal LARA
Sweater: (fd) TeddyBear Sweater 2.0 – Moon LARA
Head: / HEAD / lel EvoX NOEL 3.1
Earrings: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire :: Stud Earring
Hair: Exile:: Erya
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
Rings: Orsini Jewelry MIA Bento Ring Maitreya
Shoes: Spoiled – Cutie Bow Sneakers Flat (Maitreya)
Skin: [7DS] – BODY 2020 UNIVERSE bom skin PINEAPPLE browless
Water Bottle: FLAIR – Boston Bottle

Capybaras for EVERYONE

Did you know that capybaras are an animal that can live with all kinds of other animals. It’s a very nurturing, friendly little creature, although not so little. They’re like this great big guinea pigs who just love everybody and are gentle and sweet.

I’m kind of a huge fan.

I had a very busy week, and am just a lazy girl today. I didn’t even get dressed. How is your weekend going?

Gidge is Snuggling Capybaras In:
Ring: (Yummy) Diamond Solitaire Ring – Gold – Maitreya
Pajamas: .BF. Sweet Star Head: HEAD / lel EvoX RAVEN 3.1
Capybars: 18. Mutresse-Chill Capybaras (add) RARE – from The ARCADE
Necklace: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire :: Short Necklace
Hair: Exile:: Janine 1
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
Shoes: Maitreya] The Secret Store – Boudoir Slippers – Rose
Skin: [7DS] – BODY 2020 TULIP bom skin SNOW

Pretty In Pink and Plaid

Hope everyone had an awesome, restful weekend. I’m slow crawling the grid as my internet isn’t what it should be but I’ve finally figure out how to work with less than lightning speed and massive bandwidth.

First world problems, indeed.

These heels were a must have this weekend at the So Kawaii Sunday this week, I hope you picked them up – they were a steal. My outfit too was picked up at that sale, definitely recommend hitting Seraphim to check out all the other goodies at that event if you haven’t yet – there is still time!

I also was finally able to do some editing on my new RAVEN head from Lelutka. Finally getting a bit more Gidginess to her!

Are we ready for the week ahead? YES WE ARE!

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Gidge is Perfectly Pink In:
Brows: Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – 16 Eyebrows (thin) pink 75%
Shoes: .PINK ELEPHANT. – Reyna Heels // MAITREYA
Head: / HEAD / lel EvoX RAVEN 3.1
Shake: :::ChicChica::: MilkShake Gacha #8
Skirt: :::FurtaCor:::Ava Skirt (plaid):::maitreya (PINK P)
Sweater: :::FurtaCor:::Ava Sweater (plaid):::maitreya (PINK P)
Earrings: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire
Hair: Exile:: Janine 2
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
Skin: 7 Deadly Skins

Feast for One

I decided that there was nothing like a movie and an amazing meal to end this week. I was craving sushi and couldn’t decide exactly what so I just had a whole assortment sent over to me. Will I eat it all? Probably. At once? Oh probably not. But it’s so delicious, how could I resist this feast?

I picked it up at an event called the Food Court. They had such a cute assortment of yummies I couldn’t resist. You know how I love to pixel eat!

Despite staying in, I did stray outside just to take in the ocean breeze and really enjoy the surf this beautiful evening. Just listening to it makes me feel so calm and happy. I think that’s why I still love this spot so much and it would be hard to get me to move. It’s a perfect way to end my week, listening to the waves and feeling the warm breeze.

My Mouth is Stuck Open!

I spent about 30 minutes with my mouth stuck open before I crashed. I took a lot of photos and I do have to admit, this one made me smile. Sometimes it’s okay to be imperfect and happy.

That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

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Friday Night Feast:
Jeans :::Sn@tch Cocky Jeans (Black):::
Lips: Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – Soft Winter Lipstick blue 70%
Brows: Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – 16 Eyebrows (thin) pink 75%
Glasses: (Yummy) Cat Eye Readers – Black
Ring: (Yummy) Diamond Solitaire Ring – Gold – Maitreya
More rings: (Yummy) Unicorn Rings – Maitryea
Head: / HEAD / lel EvoX RAVEN 3.1
Earrings: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire :: Stud Earring
Neclace: Cae :: Best Friends :: Necklace (BEST)
Hair: Exile:: Carolyn
Sweater: Grace Sweater :: Lara :: Pink Cream Pie
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
Sandals: REIGN.- APRIL SANDALS (MAITREYA)- Black
Skin: [7DS] – BODY 2020 MABELINE bom skin PINEAPPLE

Weekend Snacking

I’m spending the weekend at the lake but I had a mad sugar craving, and nothing would satisfy it but both donuts AND ice cream. Luckily – Hangry had this creation exactly on time for me on their Saturday sale. Matcha flavor ice cream and donut combo? This is perfect.

I’m also a big swimmer when I’m here, so I had to grab this gorgeous new swimsuit from Bombshell also from the Saturday sale. I’m really ready to just tuck into my houseboat this weekend and do absolutely nothing. Ever have weekends like that? I know they are my favorite, just some quiet peaceful time with the perfect sounds of waves laping the water.

Of course my annoying ass dogs bark too much, but there isn’t much to be done about that unless I turn it off. And what fun would that be? NONE!

How are you spending your weekend? I hope it’s something lovely.

See you soon girls!

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Gidge is Weekend Snacking In:
Brows: Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – 16 Eyebrows (thin) pink 75%
Ring: (Yummy) Diamond Solitaire Ring – Gold – Maitreya
Head: / HEAD / lel EvoX KAYA 3.1
Swimsuit: Bombshell Maya / Maitreya / Grape
Necklace: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire :: Short Necklace
Snack: Hangry – Treat Tower – Matcha {hold}
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
Hair: MURRAY- Lindsay Hairstyle / Mesh
Skin: [7DS] – BODY 2020 MARLIE bom skin COTTON CANDY browless

Asian Pacific Heritage Festival

If we are real you already know that they had me at “freebies that include food” when it comes to the Asian Pacific Heritage Festival. Beautiful Dango on a stick for my delight? Yes, yes indeed. I am here for that. I also stopped by and picked up this cute headpiece from Zenith which is adorable.

There are a ton of litle shops to visit, I suggest you check them all out and many are offering cute little free things too – and none of them chokers! SHOCK.

You can pop over to Evermore to see the sights, grab some grub and buy some new lovely items to enhance your 2nd Life. Don’t forget the street food – it’s really the best.

Itsonlyfashionblog
Lips: KYONG lipstick 02
Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – 16 Brows: Eyebrows (thin) pink 75%
Head: / HEAD / lel EvoX KAYA 3.1
Sweater: ::1bp:: Sweater & Blouse Cinnamon & Chai Lilac Chnl
Headpiece: =Zenith=Flower Headpiece
Necklace: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire :: Short Necklace
Earings: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire :: Stud Earring
Body: Chai Body 1.0.0
Chai HUD 1.0.0 (Top Left)
Jeans: Cinnamon&Chai Skinny Jeans – Pink
Hair: Exile:: Renee (C)
Snack: So Silly Japanese Dango Decor (ADD or REZ) (copy no trans)
Skin: [7DS] – BODY 2020 MARLIE bom skin COTTON CANDY
Shot on Location at the Asian Pacific Heritage Festival maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Evermore/149/127/22

Ice Cold Psycho

I’m not sure why I’m running around in my lingerie with a cocktail but I guess when in Rome…

It’s just been one of those days, I didn’t feel like getting dressed and I needed a drink. Saturdays can be like that, can’t they?

This might be one of the Gidgiest pictures ever. Kinda love it. And pink drink? Forget about it.

Gidge is Psycho In:
Stockings: Luxuria – Spring 22 Tall Lace Top Thigh Highs – gossamer pink
Eyebrows: Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – 16 Eyebrows (thin) pink 75%
Head: / HEAD / lel EvoX KAYA 3.1
Glasses: 09 Glasses -[GIULIADESIGN] -Harajuku Girls Mania-
Necklace: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire :: Short Necklace
Earrings: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire
Hair: Exile:: Sherilyn
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
Lingerie: neve intimates – moore Lara
Shoes: [Maitreya] The Secret Store – Boudoir Slippers – Rose
Skin: [7DS] – BODY 2020 MARLIE bom skin COTTON CANDY browless

Vacation Home – Acquired

For a long time I’ve wanted a second home and this past week one availed itself and I could not resist. Just a place to get away on the weekends and relax with no cares – who could resist? So when a houseboat opened up near many awesome people I couldn’t say no.

I’m still moving in and decorating. I didn’t really think through my dining options when I moved in so I’ve ordered delivery of donuts. This is perfect, as far as I’m concerned. I’ll spend a lovely evening here on the water, full of donuts, and then return back to the world tomorrow.

It’s a good plan.

I have nowhere to go and all day to get there.

Gidge is Donuts Laden In:
Eye Alpha
eyeshadow: Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – Soft Winter Glitter Eyeshadow copper
Brows: Izzie’s – LeL Evo X – 16 Eyebrows (thin) pink 75%
Lips: [Glam Affair] Halle – Lips Toner 4
[Glam Affair] Halle – Eyeliner C
Skin: [Glam Affair] Halle Layer [Lelutka EvoX] Beige C
Head: / HEAD / lel EvoX KAYA 3.1
Necklace: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire :: Short Necklace
Earrings: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire :: Stud Earring (L)
Pants: Decoy – Bree Capris: Fatpack (Maitreya)
Hair: Exile:: Piper 2
Shoes: friday – Mary Janes (Ink) – Maitreya
Top:JustBECAUSE~MindyTankTop~White~Lara
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
Donuts: MVT – Spring donut with chopsticks WEAR
MVT – Spring donut to go – HOLD

Red for the Win

I slipped back into the gorgeous curves of my CHAI body from Cinnamon and Chai and this girl is so curvy I do have to say, if the gorgeous well proprotioned curves are your thing this body is a win.

I’m having a drink this fine Sunday evening and I couldn’t resist some extra cherries. We live once, and if you like cherries I say you should go hard on them. ENJOY your cocktail darnit!

ChicChica remains my #1 favorite spot for drinks, her cocktials are both delicious and gorgeous. She’s the cocktail maker to the Queen if I do say so myself.

I’ve been rolling everywhere in CAE’s classic solitaire jewelry lately and I haven’t found a reason to take it off yet. With adjustable stone shapes it goes with everything. I hope she comes back some day and starts making jewelry – she was amazing.

Now I need to sort our my week. Maybe just one more drink?

Jewelry: Cae :: Basics – Solitaire Body: Chai Body 1.0.0
Chai HUD 1.0.0 (Top Left)
Dress:Cinnamon&Chai Sheath Dress – Red
Hair: Exile:: Zara (C)
Skin: [7DS] – BODY 2020 MABELINE bom skin PINEAPPLE
Eyes: Banana Banshee
Drink: ChicChica